• grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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    3 days ago

    This is the way, but I’m demi so in my case it’s DT have a long heartfelt conversation, make plans together, form mutual respect, and then fuck.

    I’ll admit it’s does sound like more work when I spell it all out.

    • RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.works
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      3 days ago

      I’ve found I have little self control and have ended up fucking a bunch of friends post hormone transition. Glad my partner loves it cuz apparently I’m one of the worst out there.

      Only a matter of time until I work up the nerve for content creation.

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          3 days ago

          I’m pretty involved in my personal community and when people found out I was on the market AND leaving… There were a surprising amount of applications. 😅🫣

          I’m really not used to it. I forget how I look and it catches me off guard every time I walk by a reflection. Not trying to be vein it’s just my internal self image doesn’t match again, but in a good way? Idk.

          • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPM
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            3 days ago

            That’s awesome. I’m not super gorgeous, but I often do a double take when catching a glimpse of my reflection too. My internal image isn’t as cute as the person I see (≧ω≦)