Dating apps are often a miserable experience for the participants, however for some reason they are quite popular and at times can be quite addictive.

  • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 months ago

    The problem with them is that they’re designed to be addictive, and connecting people is actively against the economic interests of the app owners, so they don’t truly try and connect people.

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      4 months ago

      So how would you go about truly connecting people and still making money?

  • gapbetweenus@feddit.de
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    4 months ago

    The problem, like with a lot of stuff, ist that they are for profit and optimized in a way to maximize profit over the actual functionality.

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        4 months ago

        Somebody really passionate about it has to make one and not sell it or make it publicly tradable? Which would be difficult since the market is rather full (I would guess). Also dating can be just a miserable experience if one lacks self esteem and does not fit into societal expectations of desirability - that’s not on dating app problem.

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          4 months ago

          It still has to be economically viable. Even if someone made one with good intentions, there’d still have to be a way to keep it afloat. How would you go about doing that?

          Also dating can be just a miserable experience if one lacks self esteem and does not fit into societal expectations of desirability - that’s not on dating app problem.

          I actually think that a good and popular dating app would theoretically solve that as the dating pool would be much larger.

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    4 months ago

    I think Breeze is onto something. You only pay for actual date you go on. It has some deal with bars and cafes and you pay 10 euro and the app set up a date and the first drink is included. You are also only ever exposed to a very limited numbers of potential dates. It’s not available in my country, so I haven’t tried it.

    https://breeze.social/

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      4 months ago

      Ghosters get their account frozen

      Daters are screened and verified

      You both pay upfront to show commitment

      That’s actually quite intriguing. Seems like it’s a German startup and only available in Berlin? Maybe it’ll catch on and I’ve never heard of such a concept.