• quindraco@lemm.ee
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    10 months ago

    Telling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.

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      10 months ago

      It’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.

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        10 months ago

        Or a female model. I’m certainly not here to discourage lesbians!

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      10 months ago

      “when they think you’re gross”

      How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?

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        10 months ago

        That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.

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          10 months ago

          But if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?

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            10 months ago

            Harassment isn’t a crime, so you’re probably safe from prison.